Learning the Wheel of Consent – Byron Bay
From 18:00 to 18:00A 2.5 days Wheel of Consent workshop and add on for Professionals Professional Training present by the School of Consent – www.schoolofconsent.org and Unique Tantra – www.uniquetantra.com LEARNING THE WHEEL OF CONSENT WORKSHOP “To experience the full spectrum of our sexuality, we have to be able to take action for our own pleasure. In order to ‘take’, we have to find the feeling of pleasure in our hands.” ~ Betty Martin —————-<<>>———— When you engage with another – whether it is a lover, friend or colleague – are you doing what they want you to do, or what they allow you to do? What is the difference and why does it matter? We invite you to a 2.5 days workshop on the Wheel of Consent, which is a powerful tool to improve the quality of your touch and communication, creating clear agreements so you can experience satisfying connection to self and others. ——–<<>>——— THIS WORKSHOP IS ABOUT • Waking up sensuality – feeling and following pleasure. • Making choices – learning how to choose for yourself. • Understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving and taking them apart. • Understanding who is doing and who it is for – because they are different. • Gaining skills of empowerment and communication – noticing, valuing, and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive. The Wheel of Consent gives you an experience of four ways to touch and relate within clear agreements: • Taking for your own pleasure – you do what you want – while respecting the giver’s boundaries; • Allowing another to take from you – they do what they want with your permission – while maintaining your boundaries; • Serving another for their pleasure – you do what they want – within your boundaries; and • Accepting the gift of another’s service – they do what you want – while maintaining their boundaries. Unless you take apart and experience each of these four aspects, it is impossible to know what they really are. Understanding and embodying the Wheel of Consent can only happen through a somatic experience – you have to feel it in your skin. Therefore, learning the Wheel happens through touch exercises. ————<<>>———— IN THESE 2.5 DAYS YOU WILL • Learn what ‘receiving’ and ‘giving’ really are – and why knowing the difference is crucial for creating connection and intimacy. • Find out where you are clear (or not) in receiving and giving. • Learn the framework of the Wheel of Consent and the four quadrants as a foundation for connection. • Experience pleasure and sensation in your skin that you can access any time you choose. • Access parts of yourself that have been hidden away that are ready to be seen, appreciated and healed. • Gain skills to bring clarity and heart into your hands so that all your touch is rich, juicy and satisfying. • Become exquisitely aware of your desires and limits and how to communicate them. • Practice giving and receiving and experience each of the four quadrants in your body. There are […]
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A 2.5 days Wheel of Consent workshop and add on for Professionals
Professional Training present by the School of Consent – www.schoolofconsent.org and
Unique Tantra – www.uniquetantra.com
LEARNING THE WHEEL OF CONSENT WORKSHOP
“To experience the full spectrum of our sexuality, we have to be able to take action for our own pleasure. In order to ‘take’, we have to find the feeling of pleasure in our hands.” ~ Betty Martin
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When you engage with another – whether it is a lover, friend or colleague – are you doing what they want you to do, or what they allow you to do?
What is the difference and why does it matter?
We invite you to a 2.5 days workshop on the Wheel of Consent, which is a powerful tool to improve the quality of your touch and communication, creating clear agreements so you can experience satisfying connection to self and others.
——–<<>>———
THIS WORKSHOP IS ABOUT
• Waking up sensuality – feeling and following pleasure.
• Making choices – learning how to choose for yourself.
• Understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving and taking them apart.
• Understanding who is doing and who it is for – because they are different.
• Gaining skills of empowerment and communication – noticing, valuing,
and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and
feeling safe enough to receive.
The Wheel of Consent gives you an experience of four ways to touch and relate within clear agreements:
• Taking for your own pleasure – you do what you want – while respecting the giver’s boundaries;
• Allowing another to take from you – they do what they want with your permission – while maintaining your boundaries;
• Serving another for their pleasure – you do what they want – within your boundaries; and
• Accepting the gift of another’s service – they do what you want – while maintaining their boundaries.
Unless you take apart and experience each of these four aspects, it is impossible to know what they really are.
Understanding and embodying the Wheel of Consent can only happen through a somatic experience – you have to feel it in your skin. Therefore, learning the Wheel happens through touch exercises.
————<<>>————
IN THESE 2.5 DAYS YOU WILL
• Learn what ‘receiving’ and ‘giving’ really are – and why knowing the difference is crucial for creating connection and intimacy.
• Find out where you are clear (or not) in receiving and giving.
• Learn the framework of the Wheel of Consent and the four quadrants as a foundation for connection.
• Experience pleasure and sensation in your skin that you can access any time you choose.
• Access parts of yourself that have been hidden away that are ready to be seen, appreciated and healed.
• Gain skills to bring clarity and heart into your hands so that all your touch is rich, juicy and satisfying.
• Become exquisitely aware of your desires and limits and how to communicate them.
• Practice giving and receiving and experience each of the four quadrants in your body.
There are many opportunities for exchanging touch as part of the learning, but there is no genital touch and clothing stays on in the workshop.
To see a short video on the Wheel of Consent, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6tcMkRrYM0
WHO IS IT FOR?
This workshop is for anyone who is interested in learning more about themselves and improving the quality of their relationships – personal or professional, with lovers, friends, parents, children or colleagues.
No prior experience necessary. For those who have been exposed to the Wheel, and those who haven’t, there are always new levels of awareness to be found. This is an all-inclusive event — all genders and sexual orientations welcome.
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This is a 2.5 day non-residential workshop beginning Friday evening and ending Sunday at 5 pm. Please bring your lunch or choose from local cafes. Morning and Afternoon nibbles will be provided. Further details will be provided to you upon confirmation of your participation.
Wheel of Consent Workshop:
Friday, December 7th – 6pm – 10pm
Saturday, December 8th – 10am – 6pm
Sunday, December 9th- 10am – 5pm
Location: Byron Bay, NSW
Early Bird:
AU$450 (special pricing available until October 16th midnight)
Regular Ticket Rate:
AU$550 (from October 17th)
*Ticket sales are non-refundable, but you can transfer to a friend if you can’t make it.
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EXPERIMENTAL LAB DAYS ADD ON FOR PRACTITIONERS
We are adding two experimental practise days onto this workshop for practitioners working with somatic healing, coaching and counseling and the sexuality field — coaches, massage and talk therapists, Tantra practitioners, Sexological Bodyworkers, sacred sexuality guides, escorts, surrogate partners…
After embodying the Wheel of Consent in the first 2.5 days, we will spend two days playing and experimenting with the learned dynamics and what I have discovered as a practitioner working with clients for 5 years; including one-way touch, two-way touch, and no touch.
We will play with assessment games and learn how to clarify what our clients really want and do not want.
I will show how to distinguish between a treatment and a coaching session, and how to use the Wheel Of Consent in sessions.
This experimental lab workshop is not about bodywork techniques, but instead skills to empower you and your clients in making choices and learning to ask for what they want.
Practitioner Extension workshop:
Monday, December 10th 10am – 6pm
Tuesday, December 11th 10am – 6pm
Price for Leaning the Wheel of Consent + Practitioner Extension Workshop: AU$900
*Ticket sales are non-refundable, but you can transfer to a friend if you can’t make it.
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To learn more please go to
www.schoolofconsent.org
About your Facilitator:
MATTHIAS { MATT } SCHWENTECK
Matt is a trained facilitator in Sacred Sexuality and Tantra. He has been on the path of Tantra and self-development for 20+ years with different healing modalities of meditation, counseling, bodywork, shamanism, trauma research and neurophysiology from around the world. He has been a student of the Wheel of Consent since 2011 and a practitioner and facilitator of the Wheel since 2013. He is a Co-founder of the School of Consent with Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen.
Matt’s main teachings are a somatic blend of the Polyvagal Theory and the Wheel of Consent for therapeutic touch, healing, pleasure and connection. He is also a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator and TRE provider (in training). For more information, visit: www.uniquetantra.com.
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Please Book HERE
Follow the link to book your place. There are limited spots available on this workshop so if you are interested please confirm your place as soon as possible so as not to miss out.
If you have any further questions you would like to have answered please email the producer of this event, Lotus Kruse at hello@lotuskruse.com
We look forward to having you inquire deeper with us.