Sex summit interview

* why male bodies and female bodies are more similar than different * how to get outside of the boxes of conditioning of maleness * how to be a multi-orgasmic male * how men can deplete ourselves through ejaculation * how men can master the animal within * why most men and women are looking […]

Our Agreements for an Empowered Partnership

Whether you are relating with someone for a night or you have been together for 20 years, the agreements you have with one another form the foundation for how you relate, how you get your needs met and the depth of connection that is possible between you. Where it all began… Matt and I met […]

Direct Pleasure and Indirect Pleasure

Direct pleasure Don’t we all know the intuitive feeling when in an interaction something is not right, and we can’t really put our finger onto it…? that’s what this video is about, separating doing from giving and finding deeper level of receiving. it is related to every interaction in life and multidimensional.

Sex and the Eight-Circuit Brain

The following is excerpted from The Eight-Circuit Brain: Navigational Strategies for the Energetic Body (Vertical Pool Publishing). The eight-circuit grid can be used to track, read, and otherwise discover the great variety of human sexual response. As long as we remember that sex, like Life itself, is messy at best –– and will never conform […]

Relationship: The need of wanting to be wanted

RELATIONSHIP: THE NEED OF WANTING TO BE WANTED Dear lover ~ Our “relationship” and the need of wanting to be wanted is over…. The expectation that the other one knows what is the right thing for us and what we want them to do to us…. This is a position of entitlement that comes with […]

Spiritual Bypassing: The God / Goddess Syndrome

by Bo Heimann In the book Spiritual Bypassing, Robert Masters has written about an important wake up call to all people with spiritual inclinations. It is a wake up call that rings true, and is aligned with what genuine Buddhist masters have always taught: do not think you can jump to the top of the […]

DMT and Sexuality: The spiritual highway in life

I took the challenge to put the topic into a 7 minute video. It is still a linear description of inter-disciplinary and multi-dimensional, every topic of the movie (Tantra, DMT, Sacred Sexuality, Spirituality, Love, Oxytocin, Chanting, Touch, Yoga Meditation, Orgasmic Kundalini) has infinite depth and is woven into each other. Enjoy watching. From the Book: […]

The Wheel of Consent

Who is doing and Who is it for ? The Wheel of Consent is a framework to separate doing from giving and show deeper levels of receiving. It shows clearly who is doing the action and who it is for. Betty Martin developed this structure 10 years ago by analyzing the 3 minute game, which […]

The Polyvagal Theory and Connection

With the following idea in mind from Albert Einstein – if you can’t explain it simply you have not understood enough – I created this short animation with support from Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin. This video is a brief description of the Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation and the […]